I think this is a stupid question. It doesn't tell you a single thing about someone, unless you think someone's not dating anybody is a problem. I'd much rather get to know a person, not his dating history.
Plus, I'd be like, weeeeellll, I had one bf three years ago, and someone broke my heart over a period of 6 months in 2011/2012. So yeah. Does that make you happy knowing this? (And YES, I had something significant happen in my life and didn't blog about it. CAN YOU EFFING BELIEVE THAT?! It was actually too personal to me to blog, which I didn't think possible. I'm obviously over it now. I found out he didn't know me at all, which was great closure. And he denies to himself that he has feelings for me. WHY AM I TALKING ABOUT THIS.)
Anyway. I think it's a stupid question. I want to know what you're into. What you like doing. How many movies you know verbatim. DO YOU LOVE JURASSIC PARK. That's not "small talk," jackass; that's getting to know if your likes/dislikes are the same. Are you going to enjoy waking up early on a Sunday, eating brunch, and watching Dexter all day? Do you want to go for a hike in the morning and the symphony that night? These are things I care about.
And please, just make me laugh.
Me: "So I totally creeped you on facebook and sent you a friend request. Stalking people is so much easier nowadays. We used to have to drive in front of people's houses in order to stalk them back in the day."
Smith: "Well, binocular sales did go way down after the invention of the internet."
I have a slight thing for him.
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I love hikes and theatres, and movies will get me every time. My fav food is pizza: all the food groups in one bite, but also too many of them at once. You will find Mr. Perfect when the time has finally come. Hang in there.
Rosemary
Best. Response. Ever.
Does "SG" stand for "Single Guy"?
Does "SG" stand for "Single Guy"?
It is a stupid question. Is someone supposed to be more or less dateable based on how long it's been since their last relationship. Is there a "right" answer to that question? No, because it shouldn't matter.
I actually don't care if someone hasn't been in a lot of relationships, but I DO care if someone just got out of a relationship - especially if it was long-term and/or messy.
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